Sunday, October 21, 2007

A minute to ponder…

Do you write for yourself or for others?

I write for myself, at least that is what I think. I don’t bother to pacify my readers and give them politically correct facts of life. I guess that would be the last thing the readers of this blog would expect from Sarcy.

Hate mails are a norm, rude comments, I delete them and they have no subsequent effect on me whatsofrikkinever.

Shit happens, and I am going to talk about it. Malays are pretentious, and I am not going to say otherwise, I am broke, heck, I know there’s no good in lying about that and I have a boring life, and that’s okay.

So as long as I could be true to myself and have no need in making other people happy through whatever crap I write here in this site (Plus the all time low number of hits (like I care.)), safe to say that I do write for myself.

Another thing is that I can’t possibly blame myself for being an exhibitionist wot?

Two of my favorite bloggers hung up their keyboards. It’s a shame really, as I have been an avid reader of theirs for the past couple of years. Now to find others who would be worthy of their spot.

MsJ and Pugs, uish… it’s a lost to not being able to read your ramblings anymore. But hey, here crossing my fingers that you will be back?

As for me, as long as I still think I am writing for myself, and not for others, I will be here.

A letter to the heartbroken…

Dear D,

I know it’s been hard, I know it’s been … what’s the word… rough.

I am not going to say that he doesn’t deserve you, because I am not so good in judging whether anyone is good or bad for other people.

I am not going to say that everything is going to be fine because the truth is sometime along the path of ‘recovery’ (I know, it’s that clichéd.) you are not going to be fine. You are going to fall into the deepest of depression and might even contemplate on taking up some job offers with no prospect of advancement or even a good pay roll to go with it. The temptation of giving up on life and to waste your time and your life with Alcohol and drugs would be so strong that you might even do it. I did it and it was not a good action plan.

However, I am going to say this.


And if it’s going to move, might as well make the best of it. Shit happens, lovers come and go. In the end, all you have is your pride, hurt but that’s not going to be for long.

Bear that in mind and you will be ok. I promise.

Last but not least;

Happiness is nothing more than good health and a bad memory.’
(Albert Schweitzer – 1875 – 1965)


  1. aww..its nice to be missed babe. i realised i have been writing for others in the last few entries, and no longer write from the heart - so have to 'tutup kedai' for awhile. in the mean time, i continue reading oyur honest renditions from the heart, blog on, my friend!
    (and we MUST keep in touch in the real world ok)

  2. I'm just taking s wee nap at the mo ;-)

  3. Dear Sarcy,

    Thats the way gal, write what you want to write and not what others want you to write. Although a cloak of anonymity does help in making it easier to write without worrying about brickbats from people!

    bastards inc.

  4. To your heartbroken friend,
    Move On Faster.

    Selamat hari Raya!

  5. sarcy,
    agreed! after all it is our blog, our experiences and in my case my grammar mistakes! :D

  6. blog utk diri sendiri.bukan org lain.jadikan kes hobo sebagai teladan.heh :P

  7. definitely for self therapy. blogging is the cheapest way. but i do scare myself sometimes. re-read my inner thoughts. :-P

  8. sarcy, agree sgt2 .. sometimes people got nothing better to do than be negative all the time :-)

  9. lol @ t.i.e.n.a

    No need to write to please others. Lainlah kalau paid to write kan?

  10. MsJ,

    on keeping in touch in the real world... of coursewe must MsJ...


    okay, dont go on snooze too long eh..

  11. Bastards Inc,

    i dont worry about brickbats, i deal with them.


    she moved on already, well, i think so la...:)

  12. MsD;

    hik.. samala kita.


    dunno a thing about that.. HIK

  13. Lils,

    yup, totally

    (To all, lack of vocaB.. today... only... hopefully)

  14. F&G,

    same here babe..


    well, we are a pessimistic race...